5.8. SERVING BY CAREFULLY PRACTICING
MUTUAL CONSIDERATION (Romans 14:1-12)
5.8.1. MUTUAL CONSIDERATION IS EXPRESSED IN
RECEIVING ONE ANOTHER (Romans 14:1)
Romans 14:1 "Receive one who is weak in the faith, but not
to disputes over doubtful things."
One may still have scruples about the need to mix with faith certain Levitical
observances. Another, strong in faith, rejects all need of such observances. The strong is
to show consideration for the other, receiving his brother with unconditional love, just as he
himself is also received by Christ.
Romans 15:7 "Therefore receive one another, just as Christ
also received us, to the glory of God."
Believers will be different in knowledge and background tradition, and in their measure of
appropriating faith. But no fellow saint is to be held at arms length until we are satisfied they
meet our own personal or group standards. For them to be in Christ is enough for
unrestrained fellowship.
5.8.2. MUTUAL CONSIDERATION AVOIDS
CONDEMNATION AND CRITICISM OF ANOTHER'S SERVICE (Romans 14:2-9)
Romans 14:4 "Who are you to judge another's servant? To
his own master he stands or falls. Indeed, he will be made to stand, for God
is able to make him stand."
The important thing is not for us to dictate just what they shall do or not do in matters of
personal conscience, as to eating; nor in their choosing to observe special days. We are to
encourage them in seeking the mind of God in the Word and prayer, and let them arrive at
full conviction of what is expected of them (Romans 14:5-6 ). Because what we do
or not do is done or not done, unto the Lord whom we serve, with thanksgiving. For none of
us lives to himself, and no one dies to himself (Romans 14:7 ).
Being absolutely the Lord's our very living and dying must be unto Him. We belong to Christ
alone, who died and lives that He might rule over us. (Romans 14:7-9 ). We are not
to be lords of each other - or of the expressions of faith of another. Each of us is
accountable to Christ, not others. Where there is blatant committing of that which the Word
of God forbids it must be confronted by the church, and every attempt made to bring such
to repentance.
5.8.3. MUTUAL CONSIDERATION IS CALLED FOR IN THE
LIGHT OF US ALL HAVING TO STAND BEFORE THE JUDGMENT SEAT (Romans
14:10-12)
Romans 14:10 "But why do you judge your brother? Or why
do you show contempt for your brother? For we shall all stand before the
judgment seat of Christ."
In keeping with other manuscripts the margin of your Bible gives the translation
"judgment seat of God." It is in keeping with the Old Testament quotation (Isaiah 45:23,
from 2 Corinthians 5:10 ). It is clear we shall as believers stand before the judgment
seat of Christ who is God the Son, to whom the Father has given all judgment (John
5:22 ).
It is affirmed we shall give account to God, not to man. This judgment is not for
salvation (John 3:18; John 5:24 ). This accountability is for rewards according to
what we have done in the body of Christ (1 Corinthians 3:13-15 ). The emphasis in
Romans 14:12 is that each gives an account concerning himself, not of others, and to God
instead of to man. All are personally responsible to Jesus Christ the Lord for the choices
they make. Leaders should be careful not to usurp the role of Jesus as Lord, over their
fellow believers. It is a terrible sin against the Lord and His people.
QUESTIONS
FOR GROUP INTERACTION
As a Christian, what would you list as essentials for responsible citizenship
(Romans 13:1-7 )?
What does God expect you to be - a borrower or a lender (Romans 13:8;
Psalm 37:21,26 )?
What is it that motivates you to discharge your responsibility to love others
(Romans 13:10-12 )?
Is there a practice in your group or church, of keeping fellow believers at arms
length until they satisfy the group's expected standards (Romans 14:1; 15:7 )?
How are you challenged by the truth of being personally responsible to the Lord for
the choices you make (Romans 14:10-12 )?