These verses leave us in no doubt that our lives need to be God-guided and God-controlled (Proverbs 3:5-6 ). The reckless person of the world leaves God out of his
calculations. The godly person calculates on divine assistance in his speaking, planning, choosing, going, thinking, doing. This is the secret of spiritual maturity.
Once again, faultfinding, speaking against members of the family of God - the common attitude of censoriousness is condemned. James is commanding - in line with the Master's
teaching in Matthew 7:1-5) where the disciples are told not to be judgmental, that is, censorious - take care not to usurp the place of God. James argues that to speak evil of a
brother is at the same time speaking evil of the law.
In speaking evil against a fellow believer the royal law of loving your neighbour as yourself, is not only broken (James 2:8 ), you have also declared in effect that the law of
love does not apply to you, and you have made yourself judge over the law.
In speaking evil you judge the law of love not to be applicable, nor necessary, nor valid, and that it has to be set aside in your case. What dangerous arrogance! Setting yourself
up as the law decider, and not a doer. This is an outrage that comes from leaving out God the lawgiver.
It is God who commands. He alone can decide whether or not His command is implemented. God enforces the law - as the only Sovereign His authority over life and death is
absolute.
Right speaking assisted. Speaking lovingly is possible with the Helper, the Holy Spirit. We can love others as ourselves because the Holy Spirit in us is love, and produces His love
in us (Galatians 5:22 ). Under the control of Holy Spirit, love and kindness issue from us (2 Corinthians 6:6 ). Union with the loving Holy Spirit reveals itself in a
loving attitude towards others (1 Peter 1:22 ). What a delight it is, when, like Epaphras, we can report that a local church is known for love towards others, love that has its
source in the Holy Spirit.
Let God the Spirit be in your speaking.
6.3. CALCULATE ON ASSISTANCE (James 4:11-17)
6.3.1. CALCULATE ON ASSISTED SPEAKING (James 4:11-12)
James 4:11 "Do not speak evil of one another, ..."
James 4:11 "... and judges his brother, speaks evil of the law and
judges the law. ..."
James 4:11 "... But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the
law but a judge."
James 4:12 "There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to
destroy: who art thou that judgest another?"

He is able to save (1 Timothy 2:5-6 ):
1 Timothy 4:10 "For therefore we both labour and suffer reproach,
because we trust in the living God, who is the Saviour of all men, specially of those that believe."

He is able to destroy:
Matthew 10:28 "And fear not them which kill the body, but are not
able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell."

Who are you? (Romans 14:4 )
Romans 2:1 "Therefore you are inexcusable, O man, whoever
you are who judge, for in whatever you judge another you condemn yourself; for you who judge practice the same things."
Colossians 1:8 "Who also declared unto us your love in the
Spirit."