In the closing verses of this Epistle, various leaders are presented in their connection with Paul. Each one gives a glimpse into what was common to all - a focussed centredness, both in their lifestyle and leadership.
He was not only the bearer of the Ephesian and Colossian letters, he had the confidence of the apostle as his representative.
He had accompanied Paul to Jerusalem, probably as the appointed delegate of his church, entrusted with their collection (Acts 20:4; 1 Corinthians 16:1-4 ).
Such was his leadership gifting and ability, he was considered by Paul as a suitable replacement for Titus in Crete (Titus 3:12 ). Instead, he was needed at Ephesus (2 Timothy 4:12 ).
He was regarded with special affection by the apostle Paul, and endeared himself to all, winning recognition as "a beloved brother" (Colossians 4:7 ).
His loyalty and trustworthiness are expressed in his commendation (Colossians 4:7 ). Such a description implied that he was known for consistent obedience to the Lord and the Scriptures. His consistent faithfulness would be individually testified to by those
who knew him to follow through on his promises. He would be known as a faithful minister because he would be seen to live out consistently the qualities of the Christ centred life. In the home, church, and his appointed tasks. He was marked by dependability and
reliability. In his correction he was kind, firm and helpful, establishing others in faithfulness.
All of which indicates his loyalty and stickability. Too often when leaders are experiencing hard times the loyalty and support of fellow leaders wanes - and even stops altogether. Loyal stickability marks the servant of Jesus Christ.
Onesimus the runaway slave. Now saved and grown in spiritual stature and called "a faithful and beloved brother" (Colossians 4:9 KJV), could not have been supported by a better companion. He knew Tychicus would stand with him in the hazardous business
of restitution in returning to his master, Philemon. He agreed with Paul's insistence on the slave's proper status in the family of God "a brother in the Lord" (Philemon 1:16 ). Paul also knew that dependable Tychicus would have Onesimus sharing the Word to the
Colossians along with himself (Colossians 4:9 ). As you mark the excellent traits of Tychicus as a leader, may you happily see the growth and development of them in your life and service.
All we read about this man shows an anointed man willing to endure hardship for the Lord Jesus Christ. In the Ephesian riot the followers of Aristarchus sought to do him harm (Acts 19:29 ). He not only agreed with the apostle's teaching, he was willing to suffer
for it. He was among those who accompanied Paul on that consequential journey to Jerusalem (Acts 20:4 ), and endured with Paul the voyage to Rome (Acts 27:1-2 ). He became Paul's fellow prisoner (Colossians 4:10; Philemon 1:24 ).
Paul loved him for his loyal endurance.
What a challenge this man is to present day leadership.
12. A FOCUSSED CHRIST CENTRED LEADERSHIP
(COLOSSIANS 4:7-18)
12.1. TYCHICUS CHARACTERISED LOYAL STICK ABILITY IN
LEADERSHIP (Colossians 4:7-9)
12.1.1. TYCHICUS WAS GREATLY TRUSTED
Colossians 4:7 "All my state shall Tychicus declare ... who is a beloved brother, and a faithful minister and fellowservant in the Lord:"
12.1.2. TYCHICUS HAD HIS CHURCH'S TRUST
12.1.3. TYCHICUS WAS A TRUSTED LEADER
12.1.4. TYCHICUS WON THE AFFECTION OF OTHERS
12.1.5. TYCHICUS HAD PROVED HIS DEPENDABILITY
12.1.6. TYCHICUS WAS PAUL'S TRUSTED ASSOCIATE

He earned the high praise of being with Paul "fellow servant in the Lord." (Colossians 4:7 ). 
He worked harmoniously with Paul, in mutual recognition that they served the Lord first and foremost. They were united in the teaching of this epistle. 
He was associated with Paul in the three critical periods of his life. 
He travelled with Paul during the close of Paul's third missionary journey. 
He went with Paul to Jerusalem. 
He was with Paul to the close of his (Paul's) life (2 Timothy 4:12; Titus 3:12 ).
12.1.7. TYCHICUS FAITHFULLY SUPPORTED A RETURNING BROTHER
12.2. ARISTARCHUS CHARACTERISED LOYAL ENDURANCE
IN LEADERSHIP (Colossians 4:10)
12.2.1. A LEADER WILLING TO SUFFER HARDSHIP FOR CHRIST
Colossians 4:10 "Aristarchus my fellow prisoner greets you, with Mark the cousin of Barnabas (about whom you received instructions: if he
comes to you, welcome him),"
"Church tradition said Nero put him to death in Rome". Holman's Bible Dictionary
12.2.2. A LEADER WHOSE ENDURANCE PRESENTS A CHALLENGE
Hebrews 10:36 "For you have need of endurance, so that after you have done the will of God, you may receive the promise:"
Hebrews 10:38 "Now the just shall live by faith: but if any man draw back, my soul shall have no pleasure in him."
2 Timothy 2:3 "You therefore must endure hardship as a good soldier of Jesus Christ."